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Principle 3 Learn each child's unique ways of communicating (cries, words, movements, gestures, facial expressions, body positions) and teach yours. Don't underestimate children's ability to communicate even though their verbal language skills may be nonexistent or minimal.
Emily has cerebral palsy. It is her first day in the family child care home, and her provider is trying to get to know her. She realized in the first five minutes that it would be a challenge to learn to read Emily's facial expressions and body language. Happily, her mother realized the difficulty the provider would have, so she offered to stay with her daughter the first few times so she could teach her the unique ways Emily has of communicating. The provider paid close attention to Emily and listened to her mother's interpretations of what she was seeing and hearing. Otherwise, the provider never would have known what pleased Emily and what didn't. Her facial expressions weren't what the provider was used to. Several times she guessed, but she was wrong. "She's hungry," her mother decided, based on when Emily had last eaten and her present agitation. "Let me show you how to feed her," she offered. Feeding didn't look so hard, but reading the hunger signs did. Now Emily has eaten, but she has started whimpering. The provider turns to the mother to understand what Emily is trying to convey.